Louis Tomlinson & Eleanor Calder Call It Quits

We are totally bummed — Louis Tomlinson and his long-time girlfriend Eleanor Calder have broken up.

The 23-year-old member of One Direction began dating Eleanor back in the fall of 2011.

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“Louis and Eleanor split up two weeks ago,” a rep confirms told People. “They have not announced this as they wanted some privacy during this time.”

“Louis is really upset about it all,” a source told the mag. “They tried really hard to make it work but it was just impossible, he’s away for nine months a year and they just grew apart.”